Privacy-First · iOS
Roster Polyamory
Built for anyone who consciously manages more than one relationship at a time — classic polyamory, hierarchical or not, solo poly, or relationship anarchy. Also known as the Roster ENM app. Local-first, no account, no tracking.
Not a dating app
Roster doesn't help you find people. It helps you run relationships.
Feeld, helloPOLY and the rest are good at helping you find new people. But once you're actually running more than one relationship, you need something else: a place for connections, check-ins and the feelings in between — without it feeling like a project management tool.
That's where Roster starts. Read an honest comparison of how Roster differs from pure dating apps on the blog.
What's inside
Built for real polyamory, not the theory of it.
Polycule Map
Your relationship web as a living map instead of a mental spreadsheet — you at the center, every connection colour-coded by type.
Wellness
STI tests and check-ins in view, discreet and local — the kind of thing that matters once more than two people are involved.
Reflection
A journal for jealousy, compersion and NRE. To sort your own feelings, not to judge them.
Vio
Your companion inside the app who checks in on you — sometimes gentle, sometimes bluntly honest.
For every shape of ENM
Polyamory isn't one single model.
Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is the umbrella term — polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy and solo polyamory are all shapes it can take. Roster adapts to your shape, not the other way around.
FAQ
Common questions
Is Roster only for polyamory, or also for ENM, open relationships and relationship anarchy?
Roster is built for any form of ethical non-monogamy — classic polyamory, hierarchical or non-hierarchical, solo poly, open relationships or relationship anarchy. The app doesn't impose a structure, it reflects the one your relationships actually have.
How is Roster different from a dating app like Feeld?
Dating apps help you find new people. Roster picks up where that ends: it helps you run the relationships you already have — with overview, check-ins and reflection instead of swiping.
Is my data private?
Yes. Roster is local-first: all data stays on your device. There is no Roster backend, no tracking and no cloud sync that stores your relationship data anywhere else.
What does Roster cost?
The basics are free. Premium is €0.99/week, €2.99/month (with a 3-day free trial) or €29.90/year.